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Haystacks & Starry Nights: A Life Lesson from Van Gogh

Brian Hicks - Monday, August 23, 2010
Today's Daily DifferenceMaker...
The Tinderbox Tapes club members receive a Daily DifferenceMaker (DDM) every morning. This one originally went out a couple of months ago. While on the road recently, I was in a pinch for a DDM to send one morning and decided to recycle one. As I searched my archive, I came across this one and it spoke to me in a new way. Yes, people, I astounded myself today! Hope this one speaks to you, too.


"Great things are done by a series of small things brought together."

Vincent van Gogh (1853-1890)
Dutch Painter & hell with a razor blade
 

You'll recall he didn't like his ear; You've probably heard Don McLean sing about him; You've certainly seen the "swirly" stars.
You also may have noticed he died at 37.

Van Gogh was an interesting character.

He only painted for 10 years.

He grew up a preacher's kid, living in mining communities as his father preached to the poor, and never pursued any significant artistic endeavors as a child.

While he did work for an art dealer for a time, he eventually became a preacher like his father.

It was his brother, Theo, who encouraged him to paint. Both van Gogh AND his parents thought Theo was nuts, but he pushed Vincent anyway.

So in 1880, Vincent gave up preaching and began to paint.

And then...

It appeared Vincent & his parents were right!
No one was buying his paintings.

Regardless, Vincent kept at it.

Despite suffering mental illness, epilepsy, a myriad of other illnesses - and absolutely zero success in the marketplace - van Gogh became a prolific painter over 10 years.

Right up until he took his own life.

Wow, Brian. Thanks for the Buzzkill. On Monday.

Stay with me, please.

Van Gogh created a new world for himself.

He didn't begin to paint as a first career; He wasn't a prodigy; He didn't even have confidence in himself! If not for his brother, Vincent would likely have never picked up a brush.

Despite his late start, mental & physical illness, Vincent van Gogh ended up painting 3 of the top 10 most expensive paintings of all time.
That's more than any other individual artist, and the 3 paintings total over $200 million! JUST THOSE THREE! I'm sure someone knows the value of his entire collection, but I couldn't find it. Suffice it to say, it must be worth a LOT of dollars!

Yet he died a "failure."

Sometimes the new world you create won't pay economically until long after you're gone.
But it won't pay today, tomorrow or EVER if you don't do the small things that can be brought together to form something great.

Remember, you don't have to invent the light bulb to astound yourself; You simply have to do what you're capable of doing.

Van Gogh was capable of painting potato eaters, sunflowers, haystacks, starry nights, even himself;
So whether they sold or not, he continued to paint them.

It must have seemed small at the time, sitting in a field alone, staring at hay, filled with doubt, knowing no one was buying.
And yet, he did it - every day - because it was the one thing he was capable of doing.

Are you capable of doing a small thing?
How about a series of small things?
When you put those small things together, what kind of new world will you create?

Do something small, something you're capable of doing, as you start this week - a call, an email, a household chore, a single flower - and you'll Astound Yourself Today!

Brian

The Motivational Wisdom of Rob Thomas

Brian Hicks - Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Today's Daily DifferenceMaker...

"And maybe someday
We'll figure all this out;
We'll put an end to all our doubt;
Try to find a way to make things better now,
and
Maybe someday we'll live our lives out loud;
We'll be better off somehow,
Someday..."

Rob Thomas (b. 1972)
American Rock Singer/Songwriter



I'm a Rob Thomas fan. Have been since Matchbox Twenty. I'm not the rabid, screaming, ringtone, screensaver, wallpaper, t-shirt, bedroom poster, Facebook stalker kind of fan. (I mean, I USED to be until I turned 40, right?) I don't even follow him on twitter, but when I hear one of his songs on the radio - usually a year after its release, because that's when it comes on the adult easy listening station (Can I get a middle-aged shout out?) - I always find myself singing along.

"Someday" is my current favorite.
If you haven't seen it, you should
watch the video.

The message, co-authored by Thomas & Blake "Shy" Carter, is basically that you should hang in there because there's hope: Someday we'll figure all this out. Someday we'll create our new world. You see in the video that the new world is depicted personally and globally. It's true, you can't create a new world for yourself & your family without creating a new world period. Like Rob sings,"You could shine a little light on everything around you. Man, it's good to be someone."

You can get in trouble trying to speak for a songwriter, but art speaks to everyone in their own way, so I'll take a chance. Here's my take...

So many lines of this song start with the phrase,"You can..." You have a choice about what your new world will look like; You have a choice about whether to go; whether to start all over again; whether to hide; whether to carry on when all you want to do is cry. You can... or not. It's your new world, so it's your call. But here's where I have a little secret that Mr. Thomas & Mr. Carter don't explicitly share:

"Someday" is TODAY!

TODAY you'll choose to create that new world for yourself & your family.
TODAY you'll find a way to carry on when all you want to do is cry.
TODAY you'll put an end to all your doubt.
TODAY you'll notice just how good it can get.

TODAY you'll be better off somehow because you'll do ONE THING to move toward that new world.


You'll do all that today,
not because it's easy; not because it's safe; not because it's what someone else expects.


You'll do it today because you're capable of doing it today.
Just today.
Just this one day.

I know you doubt yourself and your future and your VISA limit and your falling 401(k) balance and all the rest of it. But I also know that I know when you do what you're capable of doing TODAY, you'll "figure all this out" and "be better off somehow" tomorrow.

See, "Someday" is closer than you think.

You'll live out loud, shine your light on everything around you, and be better off somehow when you choose to Astound Yourself Today!

Brian

Trust God & Trust Yourself

Brian Hicks - Thursday, August 12, 2010
Today's Daily DifferenceMaker
(This went out to club members today & I couldn't help myself. I was so fired up after reading it that I had to put it out to everybody else. Is is cheesy that I got myself all excited by reading my OWN Daily DifferenceMaker? YEP! But I think you'll get fired up, too, so here you go...)

"I think we may safely trust a good deal more than we do."

Henry David Thoreau (1817-1862)
American Author & Poet
 


When my dad was the Senior Pastor of the largest Southern Baptist Church in Columbus, Georgia (which is akin to being Valedictorian of Alternative School), I recall a time when we were embarking on a capital campaign for a building program.

The consultant hired by the church asked my dad to help think of a campaign slogan; something catchy & motivating that would inspire the people and encourage them to give.

Dad's response was vintage Brad Hicks. "We're going to trust God & trust the people," he said.

The consultant was elated. "Trust God, Trust the People. What a GREAT slogan!"

My dad was perplexed. "It's not a slogan," he said, "It's what we do here. It's what we've always done."

Trusting God & trusting ourselves was how we relocated a church with 113 committed givers and grew to 4,000 members. In short, it was how we created a new world for Wynnbrook Baptist Church and the Columbus area.

I'm convinced that you and I are no different than that church body. We have a dream - a vision - for a world we believe we were put here to create.

Some of us believe that God gave us our vision of that new world, and thus we must trust Him to help us see it to fruition.

But whether or not you believe your new world was God-breathed, we all have this in common: There will come a point when you will have to trust yourself.

Well, Heck.

That was a nice story until I had to bring up trusting yourself, huh?

I'll never forget a fellow minister inquiring of my dad about his philosophy.
He said, "I can trust God alright, but I ain't so sure about trustin' these folks here..."

And that's our problem, isn't it?

We don't trust ourselves because we know ourselves... intimately.
We know our history;
We know our weaknesses;
We know our fears & our foibles;
And perhaps most debilitating of all,
we know our self-doubt.

When you know all that, it's hard to trust, isn't it?

I mean, who would get out of the security of the boat - and risk drowning - on the off chance that this idiot will actually walk on water?

It's just too risky.

Or is it?

See, here's what else you know about you: You know what you're capable of doing.

You know that you're capable of making one decision each day that will make your new world an astounding reality.

You know you're capable of making one more call, asking one more time, playing one more game, helping with one more chore, answering one more question, listening to one more story.

You know that what you're capable of doing is endless!

And that you're capable of doing it again tomorrow, and the next day and the next day, because you also know
it's not the decision & day, it's the cumulative effect of all those decisions & all those days.

And when you know those things about yourself, you can trust yourself like you never knew you could!

So as you endeavor to create your new world this Thursday, Trust God & Trust Yourself.
And trust me...
you'll Astound Yourself Today!

Brian

One Day at a Time...

Brian Hicks - Wednesday, August 11, 2010

One of our club members asked that we post yesterday's Daily DifferenceMaker (DDM) here today so she could share it with others. Thanks for that!

"The best thing about the future is that
it only comes one day at a time."

Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)

 
Mr. Lincoln continues our theme today with some more insight into how the future unfolds.

Many people probably look at this and think, "Thank goodness it only comes screaming at me one day at a time! I can barely hang on as it is."

But not you.

You see things a little differently. You see that the reason it comes one day at a time is because you're creating it each day.

You create it by how you choose. You create it by what you do. You create it by what you don't do.

Remember, the idea here is to create a new world for yourself and your family by doing what you're capable
of doing each day, one day at a time.

The decision and the day are important because when you put them together after 1, 5, 10, 20 years, the cumulative effect is either a new world or the same old one you're not satisfied with.

On August 10, 2011, your world will be no different than it is today, unless you do something different today.

Thanks to Mr. Lincoln for reminding us it's one decision and one day at a time.

Today's decision: Astound Yourself Today!

Brian

Do You See What I See?

Brian Hicks - Monday, August 09, 2010
"In teaching you cannot see the fruit of a day's work.
It is invisible and remains so, maybe for twenty years."


Jacques Barzun (b. 1907)
French-born American Scholar, Cultural Historian,
Teacher

While our kids in Tennessee still have a few days of freedom left, many others are kicking off their school year today. So in their honor, an education quote.

Barzun sums up why teaching is such a thankless endeavor; whether you're a paid professional or simply molding the little minds with whom you live.

But, in my view, Barzun makes a bigger point:

EVERYthing of significance is "invisible... for maybe twenty years."

How many times have we said creating a new world - relationally, personally, professionally, spiritually - is tough because you can't see the results right away.

Remember, you make a decision today - you do what you're capable of doing - and...drum roll please...

Nothing happens.


It's the ultimate buzzkill isn't it?

Here's the thing:
We live in a world that is all about instant gratification. We get ill when Google takes more than 3 seconds to load,
forgetting that 20 years ago we'd have had to drive to the library and trudge through volumes of encyclopedias to find that answer.

Our kids don't wait for the Sears catalog to arrive in the mail, pick out the ONE thing they want for Christmas
and wait patiently for months, looking at that picture every day until the big day finally arrives.

Nope.

They buy it at Target and trade it at GameStop two weeks later.
Or they rent it at Blockbuster and are done with it in a week.

Do you see the danger?

We're conditioning ourselves to settle for the quick & easy in life.
When something takes longer than 15 minutes, we lose interest or give up in frustration.

One more time, people...

It ain't work dat way!

When you're creating a new world for yourself & your family you won't see the results today, or even tomorrow.
In fact, you may not see the results for 20 years!

But take heart, because in 20 years you WILL see a result.
Because of your action - or inaction - today, you will see a result in 20 years.
It will be good or it will be bad, but it WILL come.

And if you want to celebrate in 20 years, the formula is simple;
just Astound Yourself Today!

Brian

Is Your "Project New World" Behind Schedule?

Brian Hicks - Wednesday, August 04, 2010
Today's Daily DifferenceMaker...

"How does a project get to be a year behind schedule?
One day at a time."

Fred Brooks (b. 1931)
IBM Software Engineer
Developed OS/360,
from which most
systems today evolved.


Daily decisions.

It's why we don't do resolutions here.
And it's why we call this
the DAILY DifferenceMaker.

Each day, you make a choice.
Work or don't work.
Play or don't play.
Carbs or no carbs.

And it's not the day in & of itself;
it's the cumulative effect of
each day's decision.

Where are you today?
Good, bad or otherwise,
it's the result of the decisions
you made each day last year.

Now you can predict the future!

If you want to live in an
astounding world this time next year,
simply
Astound Yourself Today!

Brian